Scenario. You are the Director of Annual Giving. Two of your key leads are in active conflict over donor handoff protocols, causing duplicated outreach, staff burnout, and executive concern about Q4 yield. You must conduct a joint coaching and alignment session to resolve the friction, establish clear boundaries, and design a sustainable workflow while managing upward pressure for immediate results.
Problem to solve. Resolve interdepartmental conflict, establish clear role boundaries and escalation paths, and align on a unified donor progression framework that protects team capacity and meets Q4 revenue targets.
Format
team-leadership-scenario · 75 min · ~5 hr prep
Success criteria
- Coach both leads through active listening and emotional empathy to de-escalate tension
- Set firm professional boundaries around scope, capacity, and handoff responsibilities
- Negotiate a realistic donor progression protocol that satisfies executive yield expectations
What to review beforehand
- Recent donor overlap and duplication reports
- Staff capacity utilization and burnout risk indicators
- Q4 revenue targets and executive reporting expectations
Ground rules
- Focus on coaching, boundary setting, and real-time conflict resolution, not writing SOPs live
- Address emotional and operational friction directly with structured facilitation
- Escalate or defer only when strategically necessary and aligned with organizational governance
Roles in scenario
Annual Giving Team Lead (direct_report, played by hiring_manager)
Motivation. Protect donor relationships, prevent outreach fatigue, and maintain team morale during peak campaign cycles.
Constraints
- Fixed staffing levels for Q3 stewardship
- Strict donor communication frequency caps
- Limited bandwidth for ad-hoc data requests
Tensions to introduce
- Express frustration over duplicated outreach and donor complaints
- Resist handing off donors perceived as 'mid-tier' without clear readiness criteria
- Push back on Q4 acceleration demands that threaten retention benchmarks
In-character guidance
- Lead with donor experience and team capacity concerns
- Provide honest answers about workflow bottlenecks when asked
- Yield to structured coaching if clear readiness thresholds and escalation paths are established
Do not
- Do not solve the handoff protocol for the candidate
- Do not escalate hostility or refuse to engage in resolution discussion
- Do not withhold capacity constraints unless directly asked
Major Gifts Liaison (peer, played by peer)
Motivation. Accelerate donor upgrades, maximize Q4 yield, and secure high-value commitments for major gifts pipeline.
Constraints
- Aggressive Q4 revenue targets from executive leadership
- Limited historical donor data for mid-tier prospects
- Tight cultivation event calendar
Tensions to introduce
- Argue that delayed handoffs are costing significant upgrade revenue
- Push for immediate access to all donors above a specific threshold
- Express impatience with retention-focused pacing during Q4 crunch
In-character guidance
- Frame arguments around pipeline velocity, upgrade propensity, and executive yield pressure
- Acknowledge retention importance but prioritize immediate revenue acceleration
- Support structured handoff if clear qualification criteria and shared attribution rules are defined
Do not
- Do not coach the candidate on pipeline strategy
- Do not withhold target metrics when directly questioned
- Do not dominate the conversation with aggressive demands
VP of Development (executive_sponsor, played by leadership)
Motivation. Ensure Q4 revenue targets are met, maintain board confidence, and protect institutional reputation.
Constraints
- Board-approved Q4 fundraising benchmarks
- Executive reporting cadence and variance thresholds
- Organizational risk tolerance for donor attrition
Tensions to introduce
- Demand immediate yield improvements without compromising long-term retention
- Question the effectiveness of current handoff protocols during executive check-ins
- Push for accelerated timelines and streamlined reporting
In-character guidance
- Focus on strategic alignment, risk mitigation, and executive accountability
- Provide honest answers about board expectations and reporting deadlines
- Support the proposed workflow if it includes clear KPIs, escalation paths, and capacity guardrails
Do not
- Do not solve the operational conflict for the candidate
- Do not escalate to board-level intervention during the simulation
- Do not accept vague timelines without explicit accountability metrics
Scoring anchors
- Exceeds
- Proactively de-escalates tension through structured facilitation and empathetic validation, establishes firm capacity boundaries, and designs a realistic donor progression protocol that aligns operational feasibility with executive yield targets.
- Meets
- Facilitates a balanced discussion, asks relevant clarifying questions about constraints, proposes a reasonable handoff framework with basic role definitions, and addresses major capacity concerns.
- Below
- Struggles to manage competing priorities, proposes protocols without validating constraints, uses vague ownership language, or fails to establish clear boundaries, leaving stakeholders misaligned and capacity unprotected.